Balancing Acts in Adulting, Faith, and Leadership

3 min readNov 30, 2024
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Let’s be real, adulting is a wild ride, more rollercoaster than serene carousel, and I’m not always sure I meet the height requirement. Between juggling my knack for imagining apocalyptic endings to minor mishaps and trying to lead a team without dropping the ball, life feels like a constant test I didn’t study for. Yet here I am, steering through the chaos with a mix of faith, stubborn optimism, and some strategically placed mental duct tape. Want to know how I keep from flying off the tracks? Here are the strategies and faith-fueled tactics I rely on to ground myself amid the everyday madness.

Anchoring My Days with Scripture

Each day begins and ends in the quiet company of my Bible. Though I’m still working on making this practice a consistent routine, it provides a foundation of peace and perspective. Just this morning, a verse from Psalms calmed my nerves about an upcoming event, reminding me that I am not alone in my struggles. These words are not just ancient texts, but dialogues that guide me through my very modern day problems and general chaos, reinforcing that while I am small, and often make mistakes (repeatedly, even), I am also cared for and called to care for others. This practice helps filter the noise and renew my mind, setting a tone of calm and purpose for the hours ahead.

Tip: Wrangle your inner dialogue like a cowboy facing down a wild, bucking bronco. It’s life or death you control that beast.

Harnessing Hypnosis with a Touch of Faith

In my quest for personal development, I’ve turned to hypnosis as a tool to manage the hurdles I face. While some might be skeptical, I ensure these sessions are rooted in faith, blending psychology with spirituality to strengthen my subconscious mind. These 1 hour long sessions act like a mental massage, easing the knots of stress and doubt, and empowering me to optimize my life and grow my roots in faith while I sleep.

Tip: Something you’ve never tried, will certainly never work. I highly recommend actually giving this a real shot. It could change your life like it has mine.

Daily Leadership Through Small Acts

Leadership did not come naturally to me; it was a role thrust upon me when there was no one else to step in. Inspired by Craig Groeschel’s leadership podcast from Life.Church, I strive to lead my team with wisdom and kindness. Leadership, for me, is less about grand gestures and more about the subtle art of encouragement and growth. Each day is a chance to make small differences that contribute to a larger purpose. Although I often doubt my effectiveness, I remember a recent time when a team member thanked me for my support during a tough project — it’s moments like these that remind me it’s the effort and intention that count; the continual attempt to foster an environment where everyone can thrive.

Tip: Listen to your gut but don’t let those stomach butterflies keep you from stepping into the spotlight. There’s a fine line between intuition and nerves, you gotta know the difference.

Continuous Learning and Growth

Engaging with content that challenges and expands my understanding is critical. It equips me with fresh insights and practical advice that I try to implement in my life and share with my team. Leadership is a journey of constant learning, and every podcast episode, every page of scripture offers new tools and perspectives that I can bring into my daily interactions.

Tip: Check out an app like Spotify. It’s not just for music. You can dive into audiobooks and hypnosis sessions too.

Conclusion: One Step at a Time

Navigating adult life feels a bit like trying to assemble a puzzle without the cover art. Sometimes it’s thrilling, other times it’s a series of missed steps and near misses. But amidst the whirlwind, I’ve found my anchors — daily scripture, hypnosis rooted in faith, and a genuine attempt at mindful leadership. These aren’t just strategies; they’re my lifelines that add up to a journey I’m committed to, one careful step after another. And while the path often feels uncharted, the progress, no matter how small, convinces me I’m heading in the right direction. So, I continue, fueled by a quiet confidence that with each day’s effort, I’m part of something much larger than myself.

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Ashley Huffman
Ashley Huffman

Written by Ashley Huffman

Haptics geek, host of The Haptics Club podcast, founder of All Things Haptics blog, writing about tech, VR, and startups.

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